Suhem

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However, even in the very unlikely event they aren't, he has betrayed your trust by keeping a secret so-called best friend, whom he shares his bed with, spends a lot of time together with, and discusses intimate matters with (including matters between you and him), all while somehow making you believe that none of this was going on. This is a deep betrayal, no matter exactly what they have been doing in bed together. This man has proven that he cannot be trusted. Viewed that way, it hardly matters whether they are having sex. No one who has been your bf for 3 years could keep all that secret from you without working at keeping it a secret. They are almost certainly having sex.

Problem is, with seeing her every day and her sending you emails etc, she's gotten into your head and it will be hard to get her out of there. I agree with BCCA - she's trying to prove that you can be friends, that she doesn't dislike you as a person, by keeping up the contact.

If you have 15 where are the rest

Honestly, when you set these things it's easy to just set it and forget it. Change your age back and move on. I don't condone lying, but if she likes you enough, she won't care that you did that to get access to write her. And I know I don't even look at guys who are just browsing by my profile. I figure if they are really interested they would write. Key phrase: if she's interested enough. If she gets all pissy, then she's not interested enough and that's life. She probably forgot what she set. If I were you, I'd change my age by the one year just to write to her (and tell her you did).

I don't think so. I think some people watch Entertainment Tonite too much and think that the stalkers and papparazzi will also apply to them...

fuck yah!!

i like people that dont lie an have a great personalit.

I must have failed Female Emotions 101 big time because I can't read between the lines or make sense of her anymore. Sometimes like this past weekend,,,,, she calls on my cell phone but never talks. Is she messing with my mind, does she see me more of a friend now than a lover? The only reason I am posting now is that I can't seem to shake that albatross. But he response is still "Love isn't enough, wish things could be different but they are not, I still love you,,,I miss you,,,, the children ask about you and miss you". The advice and comments you made to my last post helped me out of my slump so I am hoping that you can help my figure this one out as well. She has no intention that I can see of getting back together. Back in January I made my first post about my breakup. Each time I make progress in forgetting her or feeling better about my like, she calls or mails me. The people here gave me great advice and made me realize that it's not the end of the world no matter how much it hurts. Since my posting, I haven't called or mailed her for over a month. She just leaves the line open. So then my question is why is she doing this if she doesn't want to get back together. I try to move on and do other things but then bam,,,, I get an e-mail or a phone call. I have tried to tell her not too and just leave me alone but she wants to talk. The problem is that she (the ex) won't go away. The first few times she started this act I tried to talk to her about if she had changed her mind and wanted to try again.

Ask and you shall kno.