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One I worked out was just some troll pretending to be someone else. (Given that he apparently has cracked vertebrae in his spine, and a broken webcam, but wants me to buy a webcam and skype with him.) At first it seemed like fun, but now I feel very jaded, I just don't trust the legitimacy of the guys I have been corresponding with. And it makes me think another one i have been responding with might also be a troll pretending to be someone else.
added by Protargol for Massio Oprah on 24.12.2020 in 13:07And I do NOT vote according to the uploader...I vote "KEEP" on what I like. To spunk...I didn't say "YOU" said it was HP worthy...someone else said it in the comments.
added by Syrma for Massio Oprah on 16.12.2020 in 07:52Something which was obvious to me, that 'diving in and dealing with it', was antithetical to her. A marked example was, while I was caregiving (my mom recently died from dementia), I told my exW to observe carefully as the way I was caring for my mom would reflect the care I would give her if she were ever to unfortunately contract a terminal illness. Our incompatibilities stemmed from style differences. She looked at me like I had two heads and neither of them were recognizable. That doesn't mean she was/is bad or wrong, merely that she had/has no frame of reference to understand my perspective, nor I hers. IOW, it didn't compute for her. My style is more 'dive in, embrace those emotions and empathize' where hers was 'detach and analyze'. This reflected our historical family dynamics, where she would retreat from the rancor of her childhood and I and my parents faced everything as a unitized family. When facing the same issues, she needed space and I needed a hug and neither of us were getting what we felt we needed. Also, we each dealt with stressors differently. Had my style been a little less 'intense', a little less 'deep' and more 'normal' for a man (the last were my exW's words), our relative styles perhaps wouldn't have been too far apart where we couldn't work to bridge the gap and find common ground.
added by Mainero for Massio Oprah on 18.12.2020 in 02:54Recently i've improved on my body language reading and socialization and i got depressed when i realised what opportunities i missed in the past.
added by Distend for Massio Oprah on 15.12.2020 in 13:39Plenty of good bad and ugly. All part of life. I did date, did have girlfriends, did get married, did get divorced, even had a few affairs along the way. OP, if you have any questions for someone who did walk this path, at least into his mid-30's, I'll be happy to answer.
added by Fending for Massio Oprah on 19.12.2020 in 21:44Not bad at all
added by Puppetman for Massio Oprah on 21.12.2020 in 11:41They have some Captain in them
added by Snaw for Massio Oprah on 20.12.2020 in 14:23I see the many grey. I'm a normal member of this so called world with some imperfections, but with a strength of ten as well! I strive to live fearlessly and not to merely see life in black-and-white.
added by Appollo for Massio Oprah on 23.12.2020 in 10:48Dear lord.
added by Godina for Massio Oprah on 19.12.2020 in 11:21She is absolutely gorgeous!
added by Warping for Massio Oprah on 20.12.2020 in 17:45You said she let herself go- by making out passionately and talking about future dating plans. That's not hard to do. Like many others said, she's enjoying the amount of attention she receives and validations to her hard to get game strategies.
added by Travois for Massio Oprah on 17.12.2020 in 08:25Simple, Very Jovial, Singer and movie frea.