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It doesn't take experience to know to avoid this situation it takes discipline and that is what you lack. You know exactly what you are doing. see the review

I was referring to lacking experience on dealing with my relationship going stale and starting to develop a connection with someone else. I haven't done anything physical with this man even though I probably could have. I appreciate your input and yeah, maybe I don't have the most discipline but I am trying and reaching out to perfect strangers to try and gain a different perspective. see the review

I think about this often and it confuses me more. I don't want a relationship with this man. Quite honestly, I think he would make a crummy boyfriend especially considering the things he has told me about his past relationships. He does not have the best track history. I try to remind myself of this all the time. Have looked at countless posts online about how to deter romantic or sexual thoughts about someone and even with all this I still am physically drawn to him and find myself thinking about him a lot. see the review

Again, this paints a picture and actually helps. I just can't believe I let myself take this as far as I have and don't know how to bounce back from it. The amount of stress and anxiety I'm feeling without even having taken this to a physical level should be enough to show me that going any further with this will completely ruin my life. Now to find a new job I don't see myself being able to salvage my relationship while having to face the situation at work daily. I think he is a bad influence on me and clouds my otherwise good judgement. see the review

You already are. I can remember a couple of very similar nights wondering where exactly my ex was until all hours, and with whom. I slept pretty fitfully, only to wake up and realize he still hadn't come home. That sinking feeling was awful. If your girlfriend is anything like I was, this is already very distressing to her. I can guarantee you she doesn't believe your cover story, and that it plays on her mind a lot. see the review

That may be true, but again, I don't think the underlying problem is him. It's that you're in an unhappy relationship, and seeking validation and excitement outside of it now. So, even if you find another job, there is still a strong chance something like this will happen again. see the review

To be clear, I'm not suggesting your girlfriend is perfect. She might very well be putting up walls which are making it difficult for you to express exactly how deep in danger your relationship actually is. I also sense that you have tried to rebuild the connection with her (you mentioned counselling?) but she has resisted your efforts. That absolutely complicates matters, but it is exactly why you have a difficult decision to make: is this relationship actually salvageable, or is it time to break it off? see the review

Your infatuation with this guy is what is giving you a poor opinion about your relationship with your GF. Cut this guy out of your life. Stop hanging out together, stop texting, stop talking about personal things, tell the guy you are not single, keep it strictly professional, maybe talk to your boss about changing your position in order to stop traveling with him. Once you wean yourself off of him, things will probably improve in your relationship. see the review

If you do decide that you want to pursue this with the guy after all the debate in your mind, please at least show a modicum of empathy for your GF by being honest. And if indeed you do leave her, leave her before you physically cross a boundary. see the review

I only say that because you have time to make decisions that are what you feel is best for you without earning that foul moniker of Cheater. Being labeled as such sticks with people like a bad meal at a truckstop see the review

May I ask, at any point would this behavior break you especially if it was coming from a really attractive woman? I think I'm struggling with this because I crave the attention I once got from my girlfriend and you know what they say, persistence pays off. This man is really handsome so I worry that if I stay in this job and he keeps flirting with me no matter how hard I try to stop myself I will give in. Sigh, clearly I am just immature and lack the life experience to deal with something like this. The relationship I am in right now is the only one I have ever been in so I have nothing to compare it to. see the review